Being T

OK, So I get it… yes I might be back, but things change, people change. Half the people reading this won’t have a clue what I talk about when I mention my last blog. In fact, people that don’t even know me might end up reading this (shock!), and they just won’t even know me! Because I was a little bit stupid and forgot to pay the hosting bill, I can’t even point you in that direction and get you to do some homework.

So I guess that leaves me to do the introduction and background thingymawotsit all over again! It’s probably a good idea anyway, things are different these days…

Right… to kick things off, lets get things straight, I am transsexual, I am proud of that and I wouldn’t change it for the world. In simple terms, I was born a man, now I am not. I call myself a tranny, now I know that some other trans people find that offensive… but I really believe if you use it in a good and friendly way like I do.. then its fine. That said, just because I use it on myself, doesn’t mean you can use it on others!

I have been me now for just over 3 years and I’m actually near the end of the process now.. got an appointment down in that London to see the surgeon in a couple of weeks, and then fingers crossed it really shouldn’t be much longer after that when everything gets chopped off! The last 3 years have been up and down, but more recently it’s been mostly up. I’ve properly come to love who I am, I’m getting a lot of male attention (I mean, who doesn’t love male attention?), and its just… fun!

So, a tip of advice to anyone else in the same position as me… the moment that you learn to love yourself, no matter what stage you are at, is the moment that you will find things a lot easier! If you learn to love yourself, you have confidence. If you have confidence (and I mean proper confidence) then half the problems go away!

.. but more on that another day!


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